"Part of the issue is this: when all of your personal energy is concentrated in the head, it never gets a chance to trickle down to the heart, or, god forbid, the groin."

AlterNet: Why Being Smart Won’t Get You Laid

Wrong, nerd. So, so, so, utterly wrong. The most brilliant people I know are also the most perverted. And whenever someone starts going off on an evolutionary psychology tangent, I immediately tune out.

The author’s suggestion to “loosen up” can work if all you’re looking for is an easy lay or casual dating. But if you want a relationship and you’re a brainiac, you’re kidding yourself if you think you’re going to be able to sustain an LTR with someone not as cerebral as you. I’ve seen people try to do it and it only ends in frustration. Unless the sex is spectacular and even that will change as the relationship evolves.

(via mariadiaz)

conclusion: I needs me a smart woman who looks good in teal.